My girlfriend and I are ambitious and want to orgasm together.
Although it does help that you two are working with the same equipment – so you have a better gauge of what she might like – that’s not going to cut it. “Everyone, regardless of gender, has a different sexual arousal barometer,” says Dr. Rss. In other words, stimulation that revs you up quickly may not work as fast for your girlfriend. The key to finding where you two O-verlap? Communication…and positioning, of course. Lie on your sides, face-to-face, and rub each other’s clitoris with your fingers, Dr. Ross suggests. With your faces that close, you can take breaks from making out to inform each other of how close you are in climaxing…until you both can’t talk at all.